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10/07/2015

Fear is everyones best friend. We all know it. Some people more than others. It happens in so many ways:

The fear of loss, the fear of getting sick, the fear of dying, the fear of not being able to fulfill your dreams, whatever those dreams are.

When I’m afraid my body starts running wild. My heart beats a hundred times per second, I can’t breathe, I can’t eat, I’m shaking, I have the feeling that I’m gonna throw up. And even though my mind is of to something else, my body can’t calm down, and reminds me of what I just forgot for the moment. Some people call it panic attack, some people call it over dramatic. They’re both right. Compared to so many others, I’m fine. I’m not in danger. But everyone fears different things.

We are afraid of getting a job, we knew we’re not passionate about; we’re afraid of losing someone we barely know because we have a certain vision of what that person could mean to us; we fear to never find real love, after a period of bad luck; we fear the uncertain when we open a closet which hasn’t been opened for a long time, or when we drink a cup of milk, because we don’t know what’s at the bottom of the cup; we’re afraid to stand in front of a window because there might be someone shooting us, hidden in another building; we’re afraid that we’re never going to find the right place in this world for us, because we only know what we don’t want.

Fear is blocking us! We don’t try things because we’re afraid of the feedback we might be given; we don’t move to another country or switch our job because we’re too comfortable with the safety we have; we’re afraid of becoming emotionally attached, so we stay lonely, or we’re so afraid of being alone, that we stay with someone, we’d like to get rid of, just to have company; we’re so afraid of others judging us, that we sometimes can not even be ourselves.

As we grow older fear changes. As kids we are afraid of the dark, of being alone in a room, of spiders, of the vacuum cleaner, of water, of monsters or of burglars.

As young adults we’re afraid of not being part of the group; of choosing the wrong degree; of the system of our country, because we don’t know anything about taxes or health insurance.

Later we are afraid of not being able to pay our bills; of not being able to have children, or to have children, but no one who helps us taking care of them; of loosing someone, who has been in our life for years; of dying, because we know that everyone just has a limited time to live.

When I was seven, I asked my mother why she was not afraid of the dark. She told me, „Someday, you will realize, that the daytime is way more horrifying than the night time!“. And I got it. Most of the life changing things happen during the day: rejections from jobs or universities you have applied for; a letter from your bank, which causes anxiety; a call from your renter, who tells you, that you have to move out.

„Somewhen“, my mother said, „you’ll notice that fear is a luxury of the youth. When you reach a certain age, you’re so trapped in structures, that the only thing you have to manage is getting out at the right time.“

I have always been a person who needs movement, fun and challenges in life. I know I have plenty of time to put my plan into action. And I know that I, as every other person in this world, will fail at some point.

I guess, we have to realize, that no matter what we fear, someone feels the same way. And no matter which mistakes we made, there were dozens of people, making those mistakes before we did. Dreams and plans always require courage, passion and patience. And sometimes, we have to acknowledge, that our way is not working.

People fail, it’s normal. Make a new plan.

There’s a place in life for everyone!

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